Electronics Be Gone

Electronics have become the NEW Heart of the FAMILY. This is NOT good news

Where are the days of

* Play dates?

*Walks at the park ?

*Carnivals?

*Vacations?

Even the simpler things like

* playing games?

* Reading books?

* coloring together ?

* TALKING?

No longer are Families gathering Around the table to eat together.

No Longer are Families sharing about the day. .

Unplug!! If it TRULY is that difficult, START SLOW! Schedule and 1 full dedicated hour a day for FAMILY!!

It can truly be anything , it can beas simple as taking a walk with the family dog.

What is Family worth to you??

WHY should I Go with my gut?

Did you know that YOU ARE PSYCHIC? Ok, Maybe That’s a bit Extreme lol, But you do have strong intuition.

Are You fighting with a Gut feeling? Do you KNOW you need to Do something? THAT ITS TIME TO DO SOMETHING, BUT , Instead of listening👂 to your innerself do you find that you argue with It? You put yourself into an emotional battle with YOURSELF?

HOW DO I CHANGE IT?

STOP MISTAKING ” COMFORT” FOR HAPPINESS.
Just because you may be in a comfortable situation, it SURE AS HELL👿 DOES NOT MEAN YOU ARE HAPPY!!
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Get UNCOMFORTABLE and get on the quest FOR YOUR HAPPINESS!! YOUR GUT IS YOUR GUIDE !!

If “it” seems off or wrong or scary …IT PROBABLY IS. Listen to your body , IT IS 🚨WARNING🚨 YOU!.👇

If it seems RIGHT, feels good, brings a sense of calm and ease, THEN IT IS THE RIGHT🙌 THING.
STOP FIGHTING WITH WHAT YOU ALREADY KNOW!!!
GET ON THE BALL AND PUT EFFORT INTO YOUR HAPPINESS!!😘😍😄

No such thing as a Perfect Mom.

Are you aiming to be the perfect Mom? That mom that has ” Pinterest perfect” snacks for YOUR Minis ? Clean and neat projects for them to do? No dirt under the finger nails?

THATS A GREAT THOUGHT, I PROMISE IT IS. The thing is, Unless this is the Natural lifestyle you live, You are setting yourself up for unnecessary stress and the ultimate mom let down.

Do not get me wrong, THIS IS NOT A BASHING POST . This is a post giving you permission to CHILL OUT!

IT IS OK to give snacks without Themes . Now, I am not saying load them down with Chips and cookies, But string cheese from the package , pre cut fruit , some dry cereal IS 100% OK.

Rainy day, Time filler projects that include paint, glitter and a MESS , is again 100% ok and actually , pretty Darn FUN

Lastly, DIRTY NAILS DOES NOT MEAN TERRIBLE MOM! It shows your kids are living a normal, happy childhood.

Ladies, Stop trying to prove you are ” the perfect Mom” to EVERYONE ELSE.

By letting loose and relaxing a bit You will be the mom that enjoys these precious times instead of stressing them away. Creating memories instead of worrying about pleasing The ” judgment team” of Mom Nazis.

We all want To be Perfect in the eyes of other moms. What you arefailung to realize is , YOU ARE ALREADY PERFECT IN THE EYES OF YOUR LIITLES .

Which means more to you? I know my answer.

Tasking with Toddlers

” How am I suppose to get anything done with my Toddler running around?”

Does that sound Familiar moms?

I Promise you, it can be done. Right now you are asking ” How Chrissy” , THE ANSWER IS , INCLUDE THEM!

All that our little ones want to do is help. When your 3 year old comes to you while you are cleaning, Crafting, doing yard work, etc, Instead of telling them ” GO PLAY” and them feeling shunned and not wanted, GIVE THEM A PROJECT ! Maybe he/she can pretend to cook with some pots n pans during dinner prep, Clean with a water dampend towl while you dust, feed the pets while you clean up the other pet mess.

Let you mini me help with Your crafting, GIVE them a rake to help with Yard work. By doing this You are teaching work ethic and responsibility. The child is learning the value of hard work, by helping YOU.

Maybe they are not ready to help on that level. TRY CREATIVE PLAY. Go outside find rocks give them some paint and get a Rock Family going.

Fill up the sink and encourage water Play with different toys/ sponges etc.

At the end of the day we all want our children to feel a bond with us, but we still have to get things done around the house . w

Why choose one over the other, when WE can do Both.?

Let the Haters Hate

As you go thru the course of YOUR day HATERS are going to pop up. Noone likes a Hater!! I know I don’t

It is super easy to fall into the trap of Negativity that they lay around for you to fall into .

WHAT CAN YOU DO ABOUT IT??

IF someone is taking time to hate😠 on you, THAT MUST MEAN YOU ARE DOING SOMETHING RIGHT👌!!!!
USE THAT SHIT💩 Y’ALL , Keep pushing forward!!!, SMILE IN THERE 😄FACES!!, STRAIGHTEN YOUR CROWN👑 AND KILL’EM WITH THAT SAME POSITIVE VIBE THAT THEY ARE TRYING TO TAKE !!

Take the haters wind by never giving them a chance to BLOW .

HERE’S A GREAT way to look at it

If you Hear no BULLSHIT🙉 and See no BULLSHIT🙈 Then there’s no real BULLSHIT to Speak 🙊

” STOP THE BULLSHIT”
JUST SAY NO TO HATERS!!

3 Ways to be HEARD in a room full of NOISE

You have a MESSEGE that people NEED to here , a talent to share with the wold, A story to touch lives, a product to change lives( you get the point). You are doing all of. “The things “,the problem is, so is everyone else.

“Hmmm, HOW do I break through all of the noise and have people here ME? ”

My FRIENDS , I am here to help.

Here are 3 Easy Ways To break through the noise and actually BE HEARD.

1) ATTITUDE IS EVERYTHING

ENTHUSIASM, POSITIVITY, PASSION. This is what captures those around you. This gets people excited to hear what YOU have to say. An upbeat personality and positive fun loving attitide stands out. People prefer to surround themselves with others who are pleasant, encouraging, and constructive. DO YOU want to listen to or be around people who are always complaining, negative, rude and destructive? I KNOW I DON’T

2. Be UNIQUE , Be CREATIVE

Don’t be afraid to express your creativity. We ALL have a our own way of looking at things, but most are afraid to ” Be Different” or to ” go against everyone else” , am I right? BE DIFFERENT. People love a “FRESH” outlook on everyday topics. Show that you are Unique, and NOT AFFRAID TO BE AN INDIVIDUAL .

Not only will you demonstrate that you can “think outside the box,” but also that you have a creative spark, and ARE NOT AFRAID TO USE IT.

3) BE REAL

BE YOU! BE REAL! BE AUTHENTIC !

Showing your true self in a room full of strangers can be SCARY. It makes you feel Vulnerable. THAT IS EXACTLY WHAT YOU WANT!

When you let your feelings flow PEOPLE LISTEN. It does not matter what the feeling is. It could be Anger, Sadness, Fear, Joy, Exciement, Silliness ANYTHING, as long as it is REAL, GENUINE AND AUTHENTIC!

Our public can smell BULL-SH*T. They will tear apart FAKE ! That is when they stop listening .

By having a GREAT ATTITUDE, Being Unique and CREATIVE along with BEING” REAL”, You Will come in loud and clear above ALL OF THE NOISE!!

Life style blog for Everday Life

When I first heard the term lifestyle blog I was like ” Cool, something that I can relate with”. Well, then I started reading them, and watching videos and looking at pictures. I said OUTLOUD ” WHO THE ( insert inappropriate word here ) IS LIVING THIS LIFE?? Who’s kids are this clean? Who’s house is this immaculate?

This IS NOT the lifestyle of us ” Everyday” Folk . This does not motivate me,it depresses me, Im not Encouraged I AM DISCOURAGED!!

This is where It clicked , I NEED TO GIVE SOMETHING THAT EVERYONE CAN RELATE TO , AT SOME POINT IN THERE LIFE!

Poof!!! Perfect Chaos was Born.

Im so excited to nurture and watch this new creation grow and Inspire each and everyone of you who interactshttps://m.facebook.com/story.php?story_fbid=2403125369700020&id=100000077409424